They Say He Comes When You’re Not Looking

Discover How to Prepare Your Heart, Strengthen Your Identity, and Attract a Purpose-Aligned Relationship

Discover How to Prepare Your Heart, Strengthen Your Identity, and Attract a Purpose-Aligned Relationship

Every woman reaches a moment when she realizes…
“I’m ready for something different. I’m ready for something healthy. I’m ready for something that honors who I’m becoming.”

Not something forced.
Not something that drains her.
Not something she has to chase.

But something aligned.
Something purposeful.
Something God-centered.

That is the heartbeat behind my new guidebook:

They Say He Comes When You’re Not Looking

A journey of healing, identity, emotional preparation, and divine alignment.

This guidebook was written for every single woman who feels the shift in her spirit — the pull toward growth, wholeness, and real love. It’s for the woman who is tired of cycles, tired of almost, tired of pouring out without being poured into.

It’s for the woman ready to prepare, not panic.
Become, not chase.
Heal, not hide.
Receive, not settle.

Why This Guidebook Matters

Love does not show up in chaos.
It does not bloom in emotional exhaustion.
It does not flourish where identity is fragile.

Healthy love grows in a healthy woman — a woman who knows who she is, what she deserves, and where God is taking her.

This guidebook walks you step-by-step through:

• Building emotional clarity

• Letting go of old patterns

• Strengthening your identity in Christ

• Understanding your needs without shame

• Preparing your heart for a relationship that aligns with your purpose

You won’t just read through it — you’ll grow through it.

What’s Inside the Journey

Each chapter speaks to a part of your becoming:

• Your heart

• Your mind

• Your confidence

• Your spiritual identity

• Your emotional needs

• Your patterns

• Your desires

• Your future

You’ll find:
✔ Short teachings
✔ Reflection Scriptures
✔ Affirmations
✔ Journaling prompts
✔ Heart check questions
✔ Practical steps
✔ And a gentle but powerful invitation to rise

It’s your safe place.
Your reset.
Your mirror.
Your mentor.
Your awakening.

A Message From My Heart to Yours

Daughter, you are not behind.
You are not late.
You are not forgotten.

You are being prepared.

Prepared for a love that honors you.
A love that chooses you.
A love that recognizes the strength you carry and the softness you deserve.

And preparation is not passive — it’s intentional.
That’s what this guidebook is all about.

Ready to Start Your Becoming Journey?

Your next season is waiting for you — and it looks nothing like your last.

👉 Yes! Im Ready

Final Encouragement

He comes when you’re not looking…
but only after you’ve learned how to see yourself clearly.

You don’t attract what you want — you attract what you’ve become.

This guidebook will help you become the woman who receives the love God wrote with her name on it.

With love, purpose, and expectation,
Apostle LuGina